The brain’s threat system does not ease up when feelings are attacked or ignored; it often intensifies. Research in affective neuroscience shows that trying to suppress sadness or anger keeps the amygdala highly reactive, maintaining the body in a stress response rather than resolving the emotional low.
Psychologists describe a different route: affect labeling, the simple act of putting feelings into precise words. Functional imaging studies indicate that when a person says “I feel anxious and ashamed” instead of “I am fine,” activity in the amygdala decreases while the prefrontal cortex, the region linked to executive function and cognitive reappraisal, becomes more engaged. This shift moves the system from a pure fight‑or‑flight pattern toward a state where appraisal and planning are possible.
The mechanism is not mystical; it is a form of cognitive processing that turns diffuse arousal into defined information. Once an emotion is named accurately, it becomes data the mind can analyze, opening the way for problem‑solving steps such as reframing, seeking support, or adjusting behavior. By allowing and labeling feelings rather than battling them, the individual converts a raw threat signal into a tractable psychological task.